The FINAL Hint(s): OK, I'm running out of ideas here (and tired of bumping the thread every day :) ) so here are the new 'rules':
Realm: Twisting Nether
No more hints as to where she will be but a simple "/who" will tell you if she's on or not. She won't respond to "/whisper" so you actually have to find her and look her in the eye to claim the prize. Well, that, and get her attention somehow.